The documentary of TB Joshua has left many Christians puzzles whilst many remain adamant that he was innocent others have chosen to ignore all his saintly actions and label him a predator.
Shadhaya had this to say:
The harsh reality that most people don’t want to accept is that a majority of these women who end up coming out as “victims” with their sad tales, are not really victims.
If these women were to be honest, they would tell you, they willingly consented to sexual relationships with these gospel hustlers. It’s only when the expected benefits from these relationships don’t materialize or cease, that they now start claiming to be victims.
It is out of bitterness or regret, that they end up alleging these gospel hustlers as abusers. But the truth is for every woman who ends up coming out claiming to be a victim, at some point she willingly consented to whatever these gospel hustlers proposed.
Women willingly throw themselves at pastors, a fact that we can all pretend to be unaware of.
Why do women end up messing with these gospel hustlers? To understand this, one simply needs to understand female nature. Anyone who knows female nature, knows women are attracted to power. They find it attractive. Men who have positions of authority have power and women can’t help themselves but be attracted to these men.
These gospel hustlers are in positions of authority, as they exert their power of their followers in church, he becomes attractive. The female’s mating desire with power gets activated. She will want to sleep with pastor, even though she knows it’s wrong. But his command of authority causes the female system to react. Power is like a supercharge to a woman’s system.
And these pastors being frauds as they are, take advantage of this, instead of controlling their urges. What you end up with is, women attracted to power and men with power driven by their lust. It now gets tricky, when the man in power knows he has access to a wide pool of women, so he disposes off those he will have slept with. Those disposed off, end up bitter or regretting, boom, they start claiming to be victims.
Such women are not victims of any kind, they’re bitter/regretful women, who gave in to the allure of power and ended up getting heartbroken. So they resort to theatrics (crying, snorting, screaming) and lying to get revenge on their ex lovers. No one is a victim, just losers.
